Hello I wanted to find out something my daughter is 18 months and her father wants to take her for unsupervised visitation but she isn't completely aware of who he is and he only started visiting her twice a month after she turned 1 ,I told him that he can visit but as long as I am around for now till she gets use to him but he has a issue with this ,I would like to know if this is legal? I do not have any court order as of yet. Also he refuses to pay anything more then R1500 a month for her and expects me to pay for the rest of her expenses alone.